Is Your Jupiter making you too NICE?
Jupiterian people or people who have a strong Jupiter influence in their horoscope are very noble and generally do the “right” thing. They can be overly nice and always willing to help people even at the cost of sacrificing themselves.
Jupiter influence on 1st, 2nd, 4th, 5th, 7th, and 10th house in a horoscope can make a person have qualities that make them a good counsellor, advisor, and guide people in the right way. This person always wants to help and can’t see people in trouble and not do anything about it.
If you have such a placement you may find that you make a lot of sacrifices for others which take a lot away from you, yet the people you do it for don’t appreciate it. You are taken for granted.
It can be in any scenario, whether it’s in your career where you work like a dog but employers don’t recognise the extra time you put in, it can be in relationships where you seem to do everything in your power to make your partner feel easy when they are down but they don’t reciprocate when you need them, or it can be in a family environment where you give up your own identity to stay n look after the house and kids but no one realises what you have given up to do so. It can also be when you have helped friends in their time of need by giving money or resources but it’s not remembered or returned or just taken as granted.
In essence Jupiter makes a person too nice and willing to go out of their way to help others. Unless there are other planets that help give a more sharper edge to them, and make them a bit more selfish, a Jupiterian will sacrifice themselves to make sure the other person is happy.
This is not always a good thing.
2020 will see Jupiter briefly enter into Capricorn before coming back into Sagittarius. Capricorn is the sign of debilitation for Jupiter.
This means it’s where it is weakest in a horoscope. However weak can mean that its qualities will be different to the norm. Could be that Jupiter is less sacrificing and noble here than usual… hence giving a more cutting edge approach.. it might be time for being more selfish and looking after your own personal interests.
2020 Jupiter in Capricorn is calling for jupiterians to try thinking about themselves for a change.
Stop Compromising your life to make others more comfortable, make YOURSELF comfortable first. If you are putting a 110% in at work – then sing about it and make people notice you! If you are getting walked over in relationships – turn those tables and demand the respect and care you deserve! If you have sacrificed your life to maintain a family – make time for yourself and schedule a calendar of where you get the breaks you need! If you hAve helped friends then make sure they value it by setting ground rules! Basically don’t take any s#%t because you are too nice.
2020 Jupiterian Resolutions…sometimes you need to be selfish to be selfless.
